... Life is too short to be losing friends this way!
I'd met a whole new group of friends when my high school friend, Joe Perrone, moved to the Wheaton area and started attending Northwood High School. I became friends with Tony Lackler around 1971. Tony and I were the same age, but I also knew his younger brother, Pete. After Tony graduated college he moved to Louisville for his first post-college job. The following summer we all 3 got together for 2 weeks camping and dirt bike riding in WestVa. (This was back when I had a Triumph 750 twin). After the trip Pete and I spent a lot of time together, just riding around the area and hanging out. I had the Triumph, and Pete had a friend's Yamaha 650. We were pretty young, and we rode like we were immortals. Big fun summer. Shortly after that we got word that Tony had died in a gun accident alone on the target range in Kentucky. Pete and I became closer friends for a while, he even got me into Alfa Romeos about that time. But he got serious about finishing his college , and I was having some bad spells of depression and denial. When I finally figured out that I had to turn myself around or life would be toxic, I went through a number of changes, dried myself out ( just before I hit 38), came out, and took a turn that left most of my old friends behind. Pete was just one of many friends I didn't see much after that. Since then, life has gotten pretty nice. I met Emma, we bought a house together, and we've been a couple for over 11 years ... but, I still wondered about my old friends. I ran across an ebay ad last year that mention one old friend, Art Amsie. He was an engineer that had a hobby of pin-up art - years ago he had a shop called The Girl-Whirl. He showed me original oil painting from Gil Elvgren. I later found out he was involved in one of the early Betty Page photo shoots, years ago. Also turns out that he died a few years back. I probably should've stayed in touch, but he got a bit private, so did I, life took some turns and ... we just lost touch. So - I'd been looking up some other old friends and a few days ago I saw the names Peter Lackler and Marian Lacker (his mom) listed on an 2006 Easter Service in Ellicott City, MD - but when I had time to go back and read the bulletin for the service - they were listed in the "Memorial" section. I googled and googled and finally found Pete's name on a School reunion page - listed as "Deceased". No other information. Don't know if it was a car crash, illness, home fire ... no idea. Life is too darned short to loose friends like this